Thank you for writing! I think I have been suffering from this for years, but I thought I was alone.

Truth is, I don’t know if another guy is hot/sexy/etc. or even what you’re looking for and I don’t like to say that I don’t know something.

I can tell you if he’s tall, fat, funny, or has facial hair, but that’s about it.

Truthfully, if he’s willing to pay for a round of beers once in a while and drives a worse car than me, I’m okay with you dating him or thinking he’s hot.